Saturday, February 27, 2010

Commitment & Fear

Well, commitment a simple english word which means, the act of committing, pledging, or engaging oneself; but still one of the toughest thing to do in real life.

It's easy to preach but extremely difficult to follow. Is that we are born hypocrites who love to make false promise or is that we don't value our own self and have this irritating but a practice which is present in all walks of life, including me.

I try and keep my word but how many of us even try, that brings me to an interesting question, is tat we make commitment coz we don't have the Guts to face the fact at the moment so we just let it hang around for a little more time. Is tat by committing at the impulse we are giving us an excuse to not do it later, has that become our second habit.

As a person I feel commitment is putting my creditability at stake, if I don't value my words then how will the world see value in it. Its like my identity, the world knows me for a reason and I choose my commitment of keeping my word be it....

Monday, February 22, 2010

Monday Blues

I often hear my friends working in the corporate world complain about Monday Morning blues.... but now I really don't understand why people cry about it.

I choose to walk the road less delivered, and thus I don't have to worry about getting out of my comfortable bed and worry about going to work, I choose to enjoy my work, and do it when I want, with whom I want and where I want to...

I feel eternal bliss when other have trouble with work I enjoy it thoroughly....

I want to thank God for giving me this good sense to get into my own and out of the rut of world...

Sunday, February 21, 2010

F.R.I.E.N.D.S

Hey just coz I gave the title as F.R.I.E.N.D.S don't think I m talking abt the famous show, what I want to talk about is my real F.R.I.E.N.D.S in my Life.

Wat I realized yet one more time in d just finished weekend is the fact that our friendship which started wid innocence, without any greed or any demand remains rock solid even after years. I know a lot of others have said tat n I always believed in it what surprises me how are families also feel comfortable wid each other

Friday, February 19, 2010

Keepin up the promise

Yesterday I made a promise to myself that I am gonna start writing again, and today I didnt know what to write, so after giving it a thought I decided lets write on our habit of breaking promises...

I wonder why is tat the moment we say it's a promise we start looking for reasons to break it...
Is it our fear of commitment or a fear to keep up with it, or its just that we don't have the guts to follow our own words.

Some wise man had said, a person who can't keep his word is not worth trusting. Now if I think with this philosophy, I can't trust anyone including me...

With this dilemma in my mind I am gonna hit the bed.

Gd nite

Thursday, February 18, 2010

Yet another Day

Today has gone by like just any other day, yet it has come to a closing, as I type I wonder what have I done good or bad today.

Today which is slipping by every second, have I spent it well enough.

Yet another day of my precious life is about to come to an end. Could I do something constructive or I just wasted my time which I shall never get again...

Was I good wife and I good mother today? Was I a good daughter and a good sister today? These are the obvious question but I wanna ask, was I good to myself today?

Did I give myself the love and affection which I deserve from MYSELF...Why is that most of us in an attempt to keep everyone around us happy land up keeping our self unhappy.

Today I don't want to let today end as Yet Another Day, I want to make it special for myself, by loving myself...

Monday, February 15, 2010

Dream & Belief

Till a few months ago, I never believed in dreaming but I just smile today and wonder how & when did I start believing in the power of Dream

I remember clearly when I wrote my dreams for the first time I could not write more than 13 dreams, today my dreams are countless. Today my belief has changed. Today I have changed today I know if I dream big, I will achieve big. As somebody correctly said the only person in between my success and me is "ME". The day I realized this fact, I started brand new perspective of life but yes I have achieved far more dream now, than I would have ever thought of or imagined that it could be in my list. But yes I am new & better person. Now nothing is impossible. Now I don't stop myself to stretch myself and reach out to help someone or to help myself or to just feel my dream.

It is simple as smile, if you feel happy within, it would show on your face, same is the case when you have a strong belief about yourself, your belief would show in the form of your dreams turning into reality.....